Dating and serious friendship
It’s a friendship filled with flirting.” How do you know that you’re in one? ” If you get this question a lot, along with raised eyebrows and winks from your mutual friends, chances are you’re in a flirtationship.
Flirtationships typically develop in one of two ways: they can grow into a romantic relationship or revert back to a friendship.
“I've had a few flirtationships, and they were entertaining, but I went too far when I accidentally got into one with my best guy friend,” she says.
It’s like the first phase of what attracts someone to another.” Whatever the reasons are behind the flirtationship, Spira says that there are some common sense boundaries you should never cross, like don’t become too emotionally attached and never keep up a flirtationship with a guy who is in a relationship. But with a flirtationship, you can be single and available.
A close flirtationship with a guy can even turn into the best relationship.
“Some of the best relationships start off with humor and wit and joking,” she says.
“It starts off really simple, light, easy, fun and uncomplicated,” Spira says.
“And as soon as one person has more feelings than the other or as soon as one person meets someone else and moves into a relationship, all the rules change and someone can get hurt.” Say you meet a new cute guy and say this guy asks you out.
I started texting him and we flirted for a month or so. “They are fun if you're not close to the guy, but if you value the friendship, don't get into a flirtationship with them.” So is a flirtationship worth it?