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Consider the characteristics that are often considered desirable in a mate—a sense of humor, intelligence, kindness, understanding, a family orientation, good looks. Mate preferences in the US and Singapore: A cross-cultural test of the mate preference priority model.
Which would you rank as most important in a romantic partner? Research consistently shows that we rank most or all of these traits as more important than good looks (Apostolou, 2011; Apostolou, 2015; Buss et al., 2001; Perilloux et al., 2011). Personality and Individual Differences, 50(2), 291-294.
The distinction between (Li et al., 2011) can help us understand the importance of a moderate level of physical attractiveness. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 101(5), 993–1011.
According to Li et al., “a necessity is something that is initially extremely desirable…but as more of it is acquired, it diminishes in value.
Similarly, in Griffin and Langlois’ (2006) research, a lack of attractiveness was associated with negative qualities, but only a moderate level of attractiveness was necessary to make one's associations positive. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 94(2), 245–264.
To interest us, then, potential mates do not need to be exceptionally attractive, only moderately so. Implicit and explicit preferences for physical attractiveness in a romantic partner: A double dissociation in predictive validity.
And looking for someone who shares a similar level of physical attractiveness to your own can enhance your long-term relationship success (Feingold, 1998; Fugère et al., 2015; more on matching in physical attractiveness in this post ). Journal of Marriage and the Family, 63(2), 491–503. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 24(3), 285–290.
While Louise certainly values all of the characteristics I listed above, not once did we say, “This guy seems like he has a great sense of humor,” or, “This man has very kind features.” We only stopped to further investigate the profiles of men who seemed physically attractive. What leads to romantic attraction: Similarity, reciprocity, security, or beauty? doi:10.1177/0146167208320387 Perilloux, C., Fleischman, D. and culturally isolated Tsimane’ people in the Bolivian rainforest.There are several adventurous traveling cyclists on our staff, and many own or have tested folding bikes. I’ve tested and owned several folders as well, and even sold them at my shop in Dayton, Ohio ten years ago.