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Not that you'll be slapped right away, but your would-be quarry will no-doubt be thinking to herself, "Meinemutterhatmichschonimmervorsolchentypengewarnt." German chicks are simply wary of aggressive flirting. On their turf, the type of aggressive flirting practiced by the semi-desperate the world over will shake German women. Instinct kicks in and directness -- that silver bullet which vanquishes all well-intentioned flirts -- takes over.If you've met German women outside of Germany, you may be tempted to dispute the above characterization of the German flirt. Theyll look at you with furrowed brow, and some apprehension. They'll turn away or let your sentences drop -- and with them your self-esteem -- into a heavy silence.And often as a foreigner, you have the advantage of being different and intriguing.
While a New Yorker might gaze seductively at you across a dance floor -- or even say Yo baby! " -- a German guy will often merely stare expressionlessly, making you feel like youve reverted to the Funky Chicken or have a booger on your cheek.But an opening may appear -- when her impassive visage shows a flicker of interest. SHE SAYS For foreign women in Germany, flirting with the natives can be problematic.Your advances are often completely misconstrued, misunderstood or, just plain missed.Which, if you havent already given up, might not be boring at all: Under those cold exteriors is often a hot, seething mass of passion.The bottom line, though, is that it is often up to the foreign woman to break the ice in a way the German man understands: heavy on the warm-yet-serious discussion and lighter on the flippant-friendly-sexy thing.